Caleb nodded because it was a fantastic question, and one he was obviously taking seriously. "I think it comes with trust. She knows my limits. Any good dominant should. I have a list of yeses and noes and maybes. They change all the time. She'll never ask me anything on a maybe list in public because it breaks character if I refuse, see? I genuinely want to please her and she wants to please me too. It's a lot more equal than you think."

But that didn't answer the whole question and Caleb thought on that too as he popped open some of the fancier brand of chips and dumped it into a bowl.

"At first, won't lie, I resisted a lot of things. Even in private. I had to be comfortable with myself. It's give and take and you know, that's a lot like any relationship. And sometimes I do defy her. Especially when we're here. Sometimes I just want to be spanked."

He winked a little at Peter.

"You'll find your way. And he seems to be a good guy. He's not just jumping in with you. That's awesome in my book. And you must care about him a lot to be willing to try."